There really are many things that make a big difference, both at school and in the home.When these are understood and put into practice the children are the ones to benefit.
- When your child starts a conversation, give your full attention whenever possible.
- Make sure that you have your child's attention before you speak by checking that they are looking at you.
- Acknowledge, encourage, and praise all attempts to speak. Show that you understand your child by fulfilling their request, if appropriate.
- Pause after speaking. This gives your child a chance to think and continue the conversation.
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- Continue to build vocabulary. Introduce a new word and offer its definition, or use it in a context that is easily understood. This may be done in an exaggerated, humorous manner. "I think I will drive the vehicle to the store. I am too tired to walk."
- Talk about spatial relationships (first, middle, and last; right and left) and opposites (up and down; on and off).
- Offer a description or clues, and have your child identify what you are describing: "We use it to sweep the floor" (a broom). "It is cold, sweet, and good for dessert. I like strawberry" (ice cream).
- Identify the thing that does not belong in a group of similar objects: "A shoe does not belong with an apple and an orange because you can't eat it; it is not round; it is not a fruit."
As adults we ask children a ton of questions have you as a parent thought about the right way to do this? Didn’t know there was a right way? Well there definitely is – it’s the difference between making your little ones feel like they’re on the spot and making them feel like they’re really being heard. This is important stuff when they’re small and becomes absolutely critical as they get older.
Although questions can be a great way to find out about our children, it’s crucial that we don’t just ask about what our children know. Of course all of us want our children to know a lot, but getting to know our children through the right questions allows us to follow their lead, tap into their interests, and help them pursue their passions.
Think about the following,
Don’t ask your child too many questions.
Help your child to make and build connections.
Encourage your child to think and talk about their own ideas.
As always if you have any questions for us please comment below.We really do love to read them.
Very thought provoking. I read an article which suggested one question to every six statements/comments which supports your advice of not asking too many questions. Izzys (s) mum
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ReplyDeleteReally lovely to see the bear that Sidney drew. We have enjoyed looking at the blog its a great way of getting him to talk about what he has been up to at School 😥👍
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